Helping My Friend

Posted on June 30, 2009
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Helping My FriendRecognizing anxiety in yourself can be easier than recognizing it in someone else. That’s because many people can actually hide their anxiety. You don’t know the feelings of panic they’re experiencing. But there are clues when your family member or friend is developing anxiety. In my friend, the first clue was a loss of interest in playing tennis. She’s always been a huge tennis fan, and we have played regularly for years. She started complaining she was tired all the time and began to talk badly about herself. This woman is gorgeous, and it was very disconcerting to listen to her disparage herself.

I finally sat her down and told her what I was noticing. Much to my relief she admitted she was having regular anxiety attacks and they were making her feel sad and fearful. I suggested she get herself to a doctor right away, which she did. When she felt better a few weeks later, she thanked me. You should not be afraid to say something to people you love who seem have anxiety or depression symptoms. The sooner you treat these disorders, the sooner they can be reversed.

Finding a Way to Help Myself

Posted on June 16, 2009
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Finding a Way to Help MyselfWhen I decided I needed to do something about my anxiety level, the first step was deciding on the first step. I had spoken once to my doctor about my anxiety, but it’s really very mild so all he could do was make a few suggestions. When I got home, I decided to do some research and find my own self-help program. I found a wealth of information in many different forms. Of course, I began on the internet and there I found books, tapes and videos and web sites. You can even get online counseling, but I’m not ready to seek counseling yet. I just want something I can do at home to help me lower my feelings of stress and anxiety.

If you’re looking for some suggestions on how to reduce your stress level, the best place to start is with the internet. But you need to be careful about believing everything you read on the internet. You need to only rely on what are known to be dependable sites carrying accurate information.

I’ll Take Some Omega-3 Fatty Acids Please

Posted on June 2, 2009
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I'll Take Some Omega-3 Fatty Acids PleaseThe omega-3 fatty acids are always being studied now, because they seem to play such an important role in the human body. But did you know that these same fatty acids affect your dopamine and serotonin production? Those are two of the chemicals that have a direct impact on your mood. So when you feel anxious or worried or even depressed, it’s quite possible your dopamine and serotonin chemical levels are out of whack.

So where do you find the greatest amount of omega-3 fatty acids? You find them in foods that are really good for you to eat. For example, fish has a high content. So does soybeans and tofu. You can also get an adequate supply of this important element by taking supplements. I take supplements, because I experience mild anxiety attacks. I want to make sure I am getting enough of the omega-3 fatty acids since they have been shown to work in the reduction of anxiety and even depression.

When Suicide Entered My Thoughts

Posted on May 26, 2009
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When Suicide Entered My ThoughtsI’ll never forget the first time thoughts of suicide first entered my mind. By then I had been having anxiety attacks for years. I have a general anxiety disorder that led to depression. Once I got depressed, my thoughts began to spin out of control. I started convincing myself that life was hopeless, and I’d never be able to cope like a “normal” person. Then I began to lose sight of what normal actually meant. I really didn’t care about anything by that time, and suicide looked like a way out of the mess.

Fortunately, I made a comment that made my husband very suspicious and concerned. He called my doctor and told him he was worried I was considering suicide. That one phone call resulted in me taking an antidepressant medication called a benzodiazepine. I was also monitored closely by family and friends for several weeks until the medication began to work. I look back on the time now and still find it scary. If you have any suicidal thoughts at all you should talk to your doctor. There are plenty of options for treatment that can help.

So You Want To Be Involved In Lucid Dreaming…

Posted on May 25, 2009
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So You Want To Be Involved In Lucid Dreaming...Sometimes known as conscious dreaming, Lucid Dreaming is the art of keeping self aware and knowing that one is dreaming while in a dream. This includes being conscious that the events unfolding around you are only part of the dream and being able to exercise control over the dream. All of this is possible for the person who has learned how to use lucid dreaming.

Having control over your dreams is an incredible experience. Everything which you thought you couldn’t keep from holding you back from your goals just falls before you and you have new found mental clarity, even when awake.

Can it be so simple? Can you lucid dream and then make those things that in the waking hours seem impossibly difficult come to life in reality.

Luckily, it’s really not that hard to begin lucid dreaming, as long as you are determined to learn it. There are proven ways to help you access this ability and use your untapped mental power.

Foremost, you must be absolutely clear about your objective in trying to master the art of lucid dreaming. Do you just want to have your own private playground in the form of lucid dreams, or there is some specific reason for developing this skill? Whatever may be the reason, it should be crystal clear in your mind.

Once you understand your reason you will begin the learning process of how to lucid dream. You will need to learn Dream Recall. This is the ability to recall a dream from the previous night. You will not be able to lucid dream until you can recall a dream.

Understand the process is slow. However, you can be successful by keeping a personal Dream Recall Register. You will begin by listing daily all the details you are able to recall about your dream. You will eventually realize that you can recall some of the most vivid details of your dream. Doing periodic reality checks, while you are in a dream state will aid you in training your mind for awareness.

Many people have found that hypnosis can drastically reduce the time needed to prepare your subconscious mind to experience lucid dreaming. Often just one of two hypnosis sessions will allow you to consistently remember all of your dreams. Once this occurs your mind is then conditioned for lucid dreaming.

You will find at first that you sometimes will awake suddenly during lucid dreams. This is normal. Just recall the events of your dream as you try to fall back asleep and attempt to reenter the dream, steering in the direction that you want it go.

Another great way to have lucid dreams is to go back to sleep for a couple of hours after you wake up in the morning. These dreams are the closest to lucid dreams as they leave you wondering if they were actually dreams or your thoughts manifested in the form of a purported event.

When learning lucid dreaming, it helps to be well aware of your sleep patterns so you know when the best times for you to have lucid dreams are.

Lucid dreaming can help people with insomnia and other sleep disorders. If you have trouble sleeping, just tell yourself “Sleeping equals lucid dreaming” and your subconscious mind will help you become free of the thoughts keeping you awake.

It once was the case that it could take years to learn lucid dreaming; the only way to prepare the mind was meditation, which took a long time to master. A lot of people lack the discipline and would simply give up. New technologies, especially audio technology have made it possible for anyone to experience lucid dreaming.

Many people are finding that the most reliable and certainly quickest way, of having a lucid dream is by listening to binaural audios.

Binaural audio involves listening to two slightly different frequencies in each ear. This synchronizes brain waves to the state where lucid dreaming is most likely to occur and at the same time causes deep relaxation.

Before this technology was available the only sure way to be able to lucid dream to order was by the way of meditation techniques which often took years to learn and the perseverance and determination required was too much of a struggle for most people.

By listening to binaural sound waves, particular when combined with hypnosis to prepare the subconscious mind, it is possible for you to experience lucid dreaming very soon after your first attempt.

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